Three the Hard Way

Brenden- Age 10, Jaiden- Age 4, Travec, Jr.- Age 15 (December 20, 2012)

Chuck E. Cheese's Fun Saturday

Took the youngest two, Brenden & Jaiden, for a day if fun at Chuck E. Cheese's!

Raising your kids

I am going through a tough time with TJ... he has turned into a child that I don't even recognize. People always blame the parents when a child goes down the wrong path. I have done everything and gave him every opportunity to be great. He has chosen to be mediocre. I feel like I am at my wit's end. All I can do is pray for strength and pray that the Lord watches over him and he gets himself together. 

Family Update

Hi guys! This is just and update... Not much going on with the fam. We're just loving each other and making the best out of everyday. It's a New Year! I will be 32 on Jan 25th, TJ will be the big 14 in April. Brenden is still his lil quirky self. He lives in his own world... LOL! And Jaiden is just too grown for a 2 year old, but that's what happens when you're around older siblings. School is going good. I changed my major to Electronics Engineering. I like this much better than Database Programming. However, I still want to learn the Programming side. I could use that as a side hustle... LOL! I hope everyone s doing well! Love you guys! Muah!

Updates

Hey Fam... I haven't written since TJ's bday... Jaiden turned 2 on September 15th. They boys are playing football... TJ really likes it. Brenden could care less. LOL! But I make him play so he can get exercise. I don't think sports are his thing, but he seems to have fun so I'll keep him going.  Other than that, we're all in school and everyone is doing well so far... We're justing taking it day by day.  Hopefully, some new and exciting things will be coming up shortly.  I can't wait to tell you how things go... Love you fam!

Happy Birthday TJ!!!

On this day 13 years ago, I gave birth to my first born son, TRAVEC BRANDON ARD, JR. I never knew real and true love til I gave birth to him. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TJ... I LOVE YOU!!!

Thoughts

The boys are getting bigger. TJ will be turning 13 on the 24th. Brenden will be 8 in November and Jaiden will be 2 in September. These years have gone by so fast. I just hope and pray that I am being the best mom that I can be to a house full of boys. Everyone makes mistakes and no one really knows what's the right thing to do when it comes to raising boys or children in general. This is the greatest fear that I have in life...